The Secret to Life (For Me)

COVID-19 has sucked. We are fifty-six weeks into a two-week lockdown and we all need something social in our lives and that is the secret to life. Not to brag, but I found that secret, but I’m pretty sure it’s something different for everyone. 

 

In Michigan City, Indiana we have an annual event called the Paddy Wagon. It’s a pub crawl sponsored by six to ten bars locally with a shuttle bus taking drinkers from one to another. It’s a St. Patrick’s Day event and held usually the Saturday closest to the holiday. 

 

It’s been a year since we had an “event.” The Paddy Wagon was the last event last year before lockdown. It was a Saturday night and Monday started the restrictions. I was wall to wall with my friends and strangers on a bus so packed that the tires were squatting. It was glorious! 

 

In walks lockdown. It was fifty-nine days between restaurant visits for me and the restaurant was in Missouri because Indiana was still engaged in the lockdown and after we opened up, it was only partial and hit snd miss as to which restaurants were open. I travel for work and dinner most nights consisted of Door Dash or Pizza Hut delivery at the desk in my hotel room when I was lucky or a sandwich from a kiosk at a truck stop or an airport. 

 

A year later, March 20, 2021 Patty Wagon happened again. I got to my normal watering hole and it was packed. It was beautiful. Seeing how busy the bar was made me tear up. Saturday nights, buzzed, good looking bartenders, friends, live band playing, kiln-like temperatures, and good food en mass all made the night. Self-discovery happens at the strangest moments and that was mine. Out of the blue I realized what matters in my life and I later realized that my life isn’t for everyone and that’s ok. What makes me happy won’t make others happy and vise versa. 

 

For me it’s not about the alcohol but the people having fun around me because that kind of happiness is infectious and just feels good to be around. Living life is the secret to happiness in life. 

 

Survival is not enough because then you only live to live and for nothing more. When I was in that moment, there was no pending trade war or economic crisis; there was just a moment of peace where all was right with the world. We all have to find our inner peace somewhere; it just so happens mine is in places with a 3-way liquor license.

 

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